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Family mediation

A quieter path through the hardest part.

Mediation helps separating couples reach durable agreements on parenting, property, and support — without a courtroom. RWE Family Law offers mediation led by two experienced family lawyers who also act as neutral mediators.

What it is

A structured, confidential conversation.

Family mediation is a voluntary process where a neutral third party — the mediator — helps you and your former partner reach agreement on the issues that come up when families restructure: parenting time, decision-making, child and spousal support, and the division of property and debt.

The mediator doesn’t decide anything. You do. Our role is to make sure both voices are heard, the relevant law is on the table, and the agreement you reach can actually hold up once it’s written down.

In British Columbia, mediation is increasingly the default entry point for separating families — and the Family Law Act is built to support outcomes reached this way.

Why mediate

The reasons most families choose this path.

Faster

Mediation moves at your pace, not the court's. Most matters resolve in a handful of sessions.

Less expensive

You share the cost of one neutral instead of paying two full legal teams to fight through court.

More private

Mediation is confidential. What's discussed stays between the parties and the mediator.

Better for children

Lower conflict means better long-term outcomes for kids. A negotiated parenting plan tends to survive years of change.

How it works

The mediation process, step by step.

  1. 01
    Agree on a mediator

    Both parties pick the mediator together. We send a short agreement confirming the process, fees, and confidentiality before we start.

  2. 02
    Separate intake meetings

    Each party meets with the mediator on their own to set goals, surface concerns, and confirm mediation is appropriate — including screening for family violence.

  3. 03
    Joint sessions

    Structured conversations, usually two to four sessions, working through each issue in turn — parenting, property, support — with the relevant law and numbers on the table.

  4. 04
    Agreement in writing

    Once you've reached agreement, we draft a Memorandum of Understanding. Each party takes it to their own lawyer for independent legal advice before it's finalized.

Our mediators

Two lawyers. Both mediators.

Both trained in mediation and grounded in day-to-day family law practice — the combination that keeps mediated agreements realistic and durable.

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Robert W. Evans
Lawyer · Mediator

Robert brings decades of courtroom experience to the mediation table — and uses it to help parties see, clearly, what a judge would likely do if they couldn't settle. That clarity is often the unlock for agreement.

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Desiree Acosta
Lawyer · Mediator

Desiree's calm, patient style is built for the most sensitive mediations — especially those involving children. She focuses on what both parents can live with, not on winning the room.

Common questions

What people ask about mediation.

Is mediation legally binding?
The mediation itself isn't — it's a conversation. The agreement that comes out of it becomes binding once it's signed, typically after each party takes it to their own lawyer for independent legal advice.
Do we still each need our own lawyer?
For most matters, no — independent legal advice may be suggested for a final agreement, but the mediation process itself does not require a lawyer. Some parties bring their own lawyers into the mediation itself. We'll discuss what's right for your situation at intake.
What if mediation doesn't resolve everything?
That's fine. Many mediations resolve most issues and leave one or two for negotiation or court. Partial agreement is still progress and still reduces cost.
Is mediation safe if there's been family violence?
Mediation isn't always appropriate where there's been family violence — and screening for this is part of every intake. When it's not safe or appropriate, we say so clearly and point you toward better options, such as shuttle mediation.
What is shuttle mediation?
Shuttle mediation is a process where parties mediate in separate rooms. The mediator acts as a go-between for each party.
Do you offer remote mediation?
Yes — our in-person mediations offer a boardroom, a break-out room, water, coffee, and sandwiches, but we also offer remote mediations over Zoom.
What should I bring to mediation?
Before a mediation begins, the mediator will speak with each party about disclosure of existing orders, agreements, and often financial statements. At the mediation itself, you are welcome to bring your materials, but nothing further is required — everything will be provided.

Ready to explore mediation?

Start with a short consultation to see if mediation is the right fit for your matter. No commitment.

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